Date Night 2 Revisited


Here it is !! Date night #3

Looking very wasted in this pic !!

Well as promised
here is my real blog entry
from last weeks adventures
I was pretty wasted on
friday and Saturday night
so I didn’t get much done
on the blog front
and had work all weekend
so that didn’t help to be honest
its the first time today
I have had any time to myself

So here it is
Last week was actually 3 dates
Lunch with Simon at
The Yew Tree in Arlington
Had a beautiful lunch
then to my surprise
he had plans to go for
a leisurely stroll
around the reservoir
yes I said it a
it was
2 .3/4 miles around
But I can’t complain
it was a beautiful day
and such a beautiful walk
the scenery was amazing
the sun was out shining
We walked
We talked
We laughed
A good time was had
As he was driving
I had to get a lift bk
from him which played into his hands as he suggested
we stop off at his place !!

That old chestnut
I’m not silly
But I went bk to his
and we sat on the sofa
and chatted and watched
a bit of TV
before I started to feel a little funny

I am allergic to mushrooms
and the lasagne I had for lunch
i found a bit of mushroom
in the lasagne and didn’t think nothing if it took it out
and ate it all anyway

So in the end he took me home
And we called it a night

This weekend past was good
Spent all of Friday
with friends sitting in the sun drinking and eating
and generally having fun
Saturday was shitty
Work was crappy
so went out after work
and met up with friends
got absolutely hammered
got the barmans phone number
so all in a days work !! Lol

Cut to 3am drunk and horny
on Grindr

Everyone’s favourite
Hook up App

chatting to some guy
ended up going round
to his place
and getting down to it
Ended up leaving there at 5am

Not many words were spoken
we just got down to it
he came twice
I came once
Wiped it off the chin
and went home
I had work at 8am
Sunday morning
I think I must have got 2 hrs sleep before the alarm went off
to get up for work

It was a struggle believe me
and was on a double shift
and it was 30 degrees out side
and I was stuck in a kitchen
next to open fryers
and ovens
for 14hrs !!

So this week has started
and I wonder what
I will get up too this week
No dates this week as such
but who knows
Am working in Worthing
this week travelling every day
and staying in Brighton
for Friday night
with friends so who knows

My others friends are trying to set me up with one of their friends so maybe that might happen this week

Plus tickets for
Booked them today
So excited about the Line Up
It’s Going to be amazing !!!!



Date night 2 / My life in a week #part3


Well this week has been a interesting week with 3 dates with different guys meeting up with lots of loads friends
Long story short brothers bday lots of booze seeing old friends
Met up for lunch on the Sunday and ended up,walking round the local reservoir for 1 3/4 miles after a full dinner was tiring and knackering but a really nice day

Would love to write more but am totally wasted ona saturday night will write a proper blog entry tomoz night !!!

Let’s just say its gonna be a doozie !!! Lol

Date Night


Date night !!

Well as promised
my fellow bloggers
last night was date night again
If u remember from my last blog
I said I had a date
with a guy that I
had been chatting too
and he seemed really down to earth and normal was guess what
He was !!


I picked a nice quiet
Wednesday evening
the sun was shining
I had a good feeling about this one

I met him at the train station and we went into town for a drink
The south street shuffle
As it is known to the locals
we only had 3 drinks
in different places
but is was a really nice evening
I couldn’t believe it
No awkward moments
No repeating of subjects

So what do you do for work
What do you do in ur spare time
Blah blah blah

It’s was really nice
We chatted about so
Many things from school
To people we knew
He is from Leeds
His name is Simon
He teaches violin to kids
ages 5-19yrs old
And I am seeing him again on Sunday

Date night number 2 is confirmed

so the evening finished
and I walked him bk
to the train station
in where there was a
very long and out if the blue kiss
in the street
a little forward for
the first date but
it felt nice and right
I got home and waited till
He messages me
I know there is protocol
For things like this
But he did message me so
I sent him one bk
Like most people
I held bk a bit of my personality
It’s better in small doses
He is younger than me
And I have been out longer
Than he has he didn’t fully
Come out until a couple of years ago

And he said not everyone knows he is out but that’s fine with me
I can be reserved and act straight
90% of the time !!! Lol

But to summarise it was
a Nice time and looking forward to Sunday to see if it is the same feeling again

My Life In The Last Week

My life in the last week

Well another sad but interesting week in the life of me
work has been a chore this week
the sun has been hot
and about 27 degrees all week
and more of it NXT week

Any way if u enjoy my blog
please let me know
so I keep on writing them or not

Side bar why is it that when u talk to guys on the phone by txt or app that its fun and you have lots to talk about
and when u actually meet in person
it’s such an awkward silence
for the first few minutes
when u meet in person

Any way
the quest for love in my life
goes on
this week I had 2 dates

I was a but reluctant to go on them after the fiasco of the last few dates
but I persevered
and went on them
and too my surprise
I think I have started to
weed out the weirdos and the freaks
and meet some genuine people

Well they seem to be at first glance

I have been chatting
with a guy called Simon
for 2 weeks
and he seems like a really nice guy
and gonna be meeting up
with him next week at some point
and see how that gets on
but this week on Saturday
I met up with a guy called Steve
First lie
His name was stefan
And he was from Transylvania
No joke
For real
He works in Brighton in hospital as a nurse he seem really nice
but he was a bit camp for me
and a bit skinny and
very very opinionated
which is not good
he sounded more Spanish than anything else
I joked and asked him
if he knew Dracula
It didn’t go down too well
We met for a coffee on the seafront
and chatted for an hour
then walked into town
I’ve not heard from him since

Oh well no loss there

2nd date was today in Sunday so I am writing about it now so I don’t forget it as I am working all night this evening
Today was Ben or
Dj Cozmo as he calls himself
It’s a bit cliche
and don’t get the wrong idea
about it but he is the Dj
of the local gay club at home
I don’t go in there
I met him on Grindr
So I take a stroll along the seafront
to meet up with him
where he is with his family
on the beach having a picnic
but to my knowledge

I had a bleeding toe
I bought some new plymsols bad mistake too small for my feet

I continue
so he met me on the seafront
and we sat on a bench
and chatted for a while
it was quite uncomfortable and akward we had been chatting
all night by txt and I was going to go meet him after I finished work
but I flaked out and just went home

Oh how a picture on a profile can’t do some people justice
He was nothing like his profile pic at least I am my profile pic
I might not be pretty
but at least it’s me !!
If people don’t like it
they can just move on
So low and behold
I had an excuse in my toe to get out
I said I had a piece of glass in my foot and had to go to the shop and get some plasters for my foot
so we chatted for a bit more
and I made my excuses and left
same as before probably never to return to the scene of the crime

I keep doing this to myself
but I stick with it
there will be some one out there for me plus it makes good reading for my blog and for people to have a little laugh
as I’m sure there are people
who read this that might have been in the same situations as I have

This is real life people

The only good thing is it is Brighton pride in a couple of weeks
3 days of drunken debourchry
which I’m sure will get a few good stories out if to write about